Coming out of isolation

Coming out of my cage and I’ve been doing just fine…

By the time you read this, I’ll be back working from the office for the first time since March. Or you’re reading this late at night, in which case I’m hopefully in bed asleep.

The COVID-19 home isolation is over for now, at least the first round if we should be unlucky enough to experience a resurgence.

It’s been an intense few months. Before I update you all on what’s been happening, I want to be clear. I know there are people that have it much worse than I do. I know there are people that have lost their jobs, suffered with their health, been the subject of racial injustice, or many, many other things that I am lucky enough to have avoided. I get that. I’m not discounting their struggles. But I also want to share with you all my own personal journey, albeit without a full essay.

The last four months

It’s truly been a roller coaster. Except it’s not like the cool fun roller coasters that you want to go back for more. It’s been a shitty roller coaster because it’s mostly been straight runs and downward dips. The few peaks on the track were overshadowed (but I appreciate them nonetheless).

I figure the easiest way to recap everything is with a list, because otherwise I’ll talk forever (and we all know that happens far too often). Thus in no particular order:

  • Took a large temporary pay cut (along with the rest of the company) to ensure my employer survived; my husband took a large pay cut as well
  • Worked from home for 4 months
  • Worked in the office at home with my husband sat less than 30cm behind me – our study/office at home wasn’t really designed for two but we made it work
  • Discovered that I cannot stand the sound of my husband chewing anything (the sound instantly makes me cranky) and that I struggle to think when HE’S TALKING SO DAMN LOUD BECAUSE HE’S IN MEETINGS FOR MOST OF THE DAY. DID I MENTION THAT HE WAS LESS THAN 30CM BEHIND ME?
  • Went onto an aggressive budget to not spend much money at all just in case one of us lost a job and to build back a bit of a buffere
  • Received free daycare courtesy of an Australian government scheme (which made me cry from relief)
  • Hit the lowest point of my life where for a split second I didn’t want to be here anymore
  • Identified the lowest point of my life stemmed from a mixture of cabin fever, poor self esteem and bad habits (lack of routine, poor diet, minimal exercise) and have started on the journey to turning that back around
  • Struggled with a foot injury that cut out running from my life, something that always affects my moods. I’m still going through rehab and only just started running for short periods of time.
  • Participated in a running event with my online run club (I was co-captain of a team) that was 5 weeks of intense preparation on the captain front, 2 of those weeks being the actual event. It was one of the best events and also the most toxic events simultaneously. It burned me out bad. 6 weeks later I was still struggling for motivation to move.
  • Came first out of 1000+ entrants in the aforementioned running event (while captaining), my best result to date and likely never to be topped. I even did 10km between midnight and 2am on the last day to secure the victory. My direct team won their individual match up, and my large house team took the overall victory.
  • Bought a cricut craft machine that allows a billion million things, and I’m having so much fun with it. I can’t list everything, it’ll go for ages, but on one of the 6 occasions I posted on instagram in the last 4 months I shared some of the creations.
  • Had my son diagnosed for some ear and throat issues – he needs surgery to remove Adenoids and Tonsils, and to get ear grommets put in
  • Saved a decent bit of money (thank you not going anywhere or doing anything)
  • Refinanced our home loan and get enough money to buy a caravan while paying less interest and less weekly repayments (quick summary is we were sick of the setup with our trailer and my husband has had some bad back issues so we want camping to be easier)
  • Didn’t post much on Facebook/Instagram/Twitter – seriously if that doesn’t show that there’s something going on mentally I don’t know what does
  • Didn’t blog once
  • Forgot probably at least 5 other crucial things that should be on this list.
  • Survived.

Heading back to the office

Honestly, I’m scared about heading back to the office. This entire isolation period we haven’t been out that much. I’ve been to the shops for groceries, and to drop my son at daycare. I’ve been to the major shops a few times, seen the podiatrist and chiro, and visited family and friends. On a rare occasion we’ve been to the beach and to playgrounds. This past weekend we started to return to normality – we went to multiple playgrounds! In the past fortnight Luca’s swim class and soccer games have started back up, so that’s helped to make us feel a bit more social again.

But that’s about it. We haven’t been around large groups of people for a long time now.

I’m an extroverted introvert, and after the first few weeks where I craved some social interaction and got cabin fever, my introverted side came out in a major way. I’m now at a point where I’m comfortable not seeing people. I’d be happy to stay home all day in my cave. I have social interactions via the internet that fill up my social meter. I have close friends and family that I see and that’s it. That feels like enough.

So the prospect of going back to an office, being around a large number of people, is daunting. In my head I feel like I should have used the isolation time to lose weight, transform myself, something. Instead I’m coming back as the same overweight blob that I was when I left. I need to go a bit easier on myself and remember that we’ve been through a pandemic. It’s ok to have had a tough run mentally! But still….it just feels like there’s so much wasted time there.

On the flip side I’m excited about getting back to a routine that involves getting out of the house. My gym is back open again so I’ve got my gym back packed, ready to get in some solid workouts again. I can get back into some good habits that don’t involve excess sugar and eating everything in sight in the house. I have an office to myself, so I won’t have someone TALKING LOUDLY ALL DAY AND DID I MENTION HE WAS 30CM BEHIND ME? I’ll get time in the car driving to/from work to listen to my favourite music and podcasts.

So…I’m coming out of my cage. I’ve been doing just fine. And I’m gonna be down because I want it all.

How have you all been these past few months?

2 thoughts on “Coming out of isolation”

  1. So good to see you in the blog-o-sphere again! Some great points and some not so great points mentioned. But such is life! 🙂 Hoping for more good points for ya!

  2. So I followed here from Cathy’s blog and then I realized, “OH–it’s THE Kelly that I suck at replying to on Facebook!” *sigh* I’m so sorry for that. I haven’t read your blog before, but just from this post, I love it! I love your writing style. (I, too, tend to write lists to keep things shorter… but I end up talking way too much regardless, so it doesn’t even matter, hahaha).

    I also bought a Cricut! But I was so intimidated when I decided to try it out that I left it in its packaging and returned it to Amazon–BAHAHA. I LOVE the things you made and now it makes me wish I’d kept it. I love to design t-shirts, and that’s what I bought it for, but it’s super intimidating.

    Anyways, HI! Thanks for reading my blog. And I’m sorry I suck at replying to messages (seriously, ask Emily… I’m the WORST).


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